Today I went to the "ASL& Java" in Brentwood, MO.
If you haven't figured it out before I am a Christian. Today God was very obvious about what my future holds. Today confirmed many things for me. I had been waffling about the future a little, I knew God had a plan but today.. well I will let you see what I mean.
I got to meet so many different people. I'm only going to talk about 2 of them. I loved meeting all of them though.
I met a lovely man who "happens" to have the degree, I want, in the "specific" field that I am going to go into. It was cool to pick his brain. We "talked" for a bit about what I want to do, and how long school would take. He told me approx. 10 years is a good estimate. But, that what I want to do is needed in the Deaf community and not to get discouraged when it gets hard. And it will. He recently lost his wife, and it is easy to see he still misses her. His eyes light up when he talked about her and how smart she was, they were married a long time 40 something years.(I do know the exact number) He gave me his business card to get in contact with him. Then we officially started the "chat". He is very well known in the area, so I am not posting his name here. If he wants to identify himself that is his choice. But He is AWESOME!
During that time I "met" a lovely lady who grew up an Army Brat. I felt like we had a connection. BRAT's normally do. She told me a story about growing up and not having much help in school. she was mainstreamed and the teacher told her she was stupid. She is Definitely not stupid. We "talked" about living in different worlds( Cultures). She grew up in one then had to adjust to the others, the Deaf and Civilian. YES they are different. I am looking forward to seeing her in April.
One of the topics of discussion today was cued speech. We haven't talked about it much in classes, just in passing. It was interesting. I can see from the Deaf point of view the issues, from the Hearing side the benefits, and from my individual point of view the pros and cons, and maybe a few applications for late Deafened adults if their brains have a hard time learning ASL. ASL is a complete Language, but if you still can speak.. I can see a pro for it. But I understand a little of that controversy.
The moderator today made sure all of the student who were there had a chance to participate. She let the students have a chance to respond to questions with our own opinion and reasons for them. Everyone used their signing skills, even Mom. The group today was great, they were warm, welcoming and open to our questions. Many of the people who attended were retired, but still very involved in the local community. It was awesome to see how much difference of opinion there was, they argued with each other but they were still respectful. They were more casual in a way than my other event, I think. The lighting was great in the building , and the elevator was great for mom. It was easy to find and I will be going back soon.